“Is Saadya licensed in anything? I never checked because I don’t care. How about experience? Honesty?

I felt so comfortable and drawn to work with Saadya because he was so honest about his own experience and marriage publicly and I visually see that what he is talking about worked for him and IS working sooo well for us.

Mo and I spent SO much money on talk therapy in the past that got us nowhere other than feeling deeper resentment because the hour ended so quickly and nothing was actually being said.

Maybe it’s Saadya’s energy mixed with the pricing that makes the couple dive right in without sugar coating anything.

You are choosing to show up and do the works so say what you mean, mean what you say and do the work.

Saadya just makes both people feel totally normal no matter what you say is ✨❤️‍.

Grateful for the expansion and evolution Saadya helped us achieve.”

“When we reached out to begin working with you, we were a mess.

My husband had recently shared with me that he’s been struggling with sex addiction for the past four years of our marriage. My husband did not have a job and I was leaning towards divorce.

Basically there was chaos and discord in our relationship and in our home. We felt distant and we were fighting and arguing basically every day.

We scheduled a consultation with you and that planted the seed for change. You shared that it is possible for us to have a loving, intimate, erotic relationship if we were willing to show up for each other.

Two days later my husband had his first session with you. A week later my husband was hired for an amazing job with major earning potential. Beyond our wildest dreams. It’s still a work in progress but my husband started taking responsibility for his part in the relationship. I began leaning more into my femininity.

My whole life I was told that the woman is responsible for the dynamic in the relationship between a man and woman. It felt so heavy, so lonely, so masculine to try and control and hold the relationship, and all the household responsibilities. It was too much.

And here you came and said to my husband, you take the lead, you take the responsibility, you show up. How liberating. How freeing. I began to find my breath. I began to feel safe in my home.

It’s not perfect but we began to feel some hope. That staying together is a possibility. That I can feel safe with my husband and call his bullshit when I see it. That he is lucky to have me and that I can be the princess in the fairy tale and in love in my marriage.

So thank you from the bottom of my heart for showing us this possibility.”

“I had no idea when I started this journey with you that I would even be addressing anything sexual. It was just another thing for me that I felt was broken about me, but I did not see it as something in my life that needed to be addressed first, because there were so many other things that I felt needed fixing.

When I started broaching this subject with you, I was uncomfortable and frankly terrified to even look at my feelings about it, let alone discuss any feelings that I had that were at all sexual in nature. I went back and forth between denying that entire part of my self, and being angry that I had lost it along the way.

You assured me that it was not only ok for us to discuss these issues, but the sexual field was actually a revealing window inward, and the way I felt about and approached my sexuality was a mirror of the way I felt about my self. I didn’t believe you fully when you first said this, but you are so SO right.

Over the past few months I have really been delving into and exploring my feelings in this sexual field, and opening up to my femininity — which is a sentence I can’t believe I am even writing. Femininity is not only something I was absolutely never ever in touch with in myself before, but something I used to see as a horribly embarrassing weakness in others.

I operated almost entirely from my masculine, and I was proud of that. I could do anything myself, I didn’t need anyone. And now that I’ve made a conscious decision to take a step down from my need to prove myself, and a step back in my relationship, and let my husband take a step forward, I see how valuable it has been to let him lead me and take care of me. And that in itself is tremendously powerful for both of us.

I am bursting with love for my new self. And my sex life is now like nothing I even knew was possible. I spent many years and decades not being aware of feeling bodily needs or urges or feelings, and even more than that, I think I was actually taking pride in actively denying them. As if admitting to sexual needs would have made me a lesser person.

Now I fully embrace all these feelings, and I am in beautiful concert with my husband in a very plentiful and extremely exciting sexual life every day.”

“Your guidance and presence for both of us was so perfect. You were able to hold space for each of us separately and together, and with the variance of knowing me better than [my wife], you handled it perfectly.

You were able to express what I have been trying to convey to [my wife] so well, I literally had to hold back from crying. You gave me the gift of a better marriage, and I hope to be able to grow that seed. I will forever be indebted to you!”

“Combined with his authenticity, compassion and therapeutic approach, Saadya has proven to be an exceptional coach.

Saadya has been able to help me open up new avenues of transformation. My personal growth and development has truly been astounding. I highly recommend coaching by Saadya.”

“My coach (healer) Saadya, one day lovingly said, ‘it’s time to get the f*ck off Adderall.’ I’m so grateful that I did. I now feel so alive and present. It’s like I took off really dirty glasses and can see everything around me clearly. The best way I can describe then and now? That was death, this is life.

There are certain people that have a healing soul. Simply being in their presence is nurturing. Saadya is one of those people. When experiencing severe lows, he is able to walk me through it and guide me back to conscious presence with simple yet powerful techniques. His intuitive wisdom often picks up on highly important details that I myself am not yet aware of and empowers me with a new perspective.

I still go through the natural lows and highs of life. But now I have the tools that I learned from Saadya to walk myself though it and respond in a healthy way. And when I can’t do it myself, he’s always there to bring me back to the here and now.”

“Saadya has a very nuanced understanding of the human experience. With his tremendous love of people, he has the beautiful and unique blend of being as un-intimidating as he is wise.

I work with Saadya to address my fear and anxiety and with his unique approach I quickly discover its source, giving me the chance to reframe it and leave empowered. Through powerful questions and deep intuition and insight, he helps me to return to my self, to be fully in my body, embracing the present moment, and to act from my empowered masculine self.

He has a deep understanding of what most couples don’t even know they’re struggling with — particularly male/female dynamics, codependency, and what it is that kills the polarity in a relationship.

If you’re considering working with Saadya as your coach, don’t hesitate. Your investment will pay dividends in your relationship to self and others. You are worth it!”

“During our sessions, you were completely present, non judgmental, compassionate and so authentic. You made me feel empowered, worthy and important. I feel happier and more at peace with myself.

Through the last two sessions, I noticed that I was becoming more aware of myself, my thought process, my actions and the feelings of tension that I feel in my body.

Being coached by you taught me to have more self compassion, self love and an awareness of my capabilities to grow and continue to pursue my dreams. I’m more present throughout the day and that’s because of our time together. I’m ready to be me, embrace me completely. I’m ready to be fully present, and continue to follow my intuition, trust the process.

In conclusion, I’m truly blown away by you and the way we connected. I’m inspired. I feel powerful. And I’m ready to keep on growing while practicing self love, and self compassion.”

“I wanted to let you know how invaluable and powerful the journey experience was for me. I had heard and read a lot about set and setting, the importance of an experienced, compassionate guide, etc. But I was still surprised at how deeply I felt how absolutely crucial these things are.

In the time leading up to the journey, the journey itself, and afterwards, I truly felt that I was in the best hands possible. The journey itself taught me things about myself on an indescribably deep level, and after the fact I could not imagine having worked with anyone else other than you. Thank you!”

“I am nearly 50 years old, a grandfather, and I have been steeped in recovery and self-development work for at least 30 years. I have read hundreds of books and courses on self-help and have mentored and coached hundreds of business people.

I’ve worked with a coach for nine months to do inner-child work. I have taken almost every kind of psychedelic in various settings over hundreds of trips. Ten years ago I even hired a 75 year old psychiatrist in Manhattan to guide me on two MDMA-assisted psychotherapy sessions.

Still none of those experiences even scratched the surface relative to the coaching and medicine work I did with you.

My sessions with you were absolutely profound and priceless. For the first time ever, I met my inner-child — at nearly 50! — and had hours long dialogue with him. This has brought me so much healing and has improved my relationship to self, my relationship with my wife and my relationship with the world.

What I now understand is just how critical the therapeutic set and setting is. And how important the guide is in holding me in a safe container so that I can truly surrender. You did that flawlessly.

Everything about your process and presence was flawless. The preparation, intention setting, the space, the lighting, the music, the bed, the food, the nature walk, the integration and your guidance throughout — all of it allowed me to fully let go and heal.

You are deep and wide and took me to places I could not, would not and did not go on my own.

Thank you, with Love, keep shining bright ❤️”

“Thank you for the past journey we did, where I was that little girl feeling so unseen, so desperately wanting to be noticed by those who love me, and feeling so hurt that it didn’t happen. I thought it was just associated with my parents, but I’m realizing that it’s a deep wound that I’ve carried throughout my life. And when something happens that triggers it, it’s a harrowing reopening of that wound.

The therapist you referred me to started helping me safely go there to start healing it. And it might’ve taken me much longer to get there had I not entered that journey under your guidance. I know it’s going to take work, but I want to heal, and so I’m going to do it.

Thank you for everything you did that night to help me journey so safely and deeply. I’m filled with immense gratitude. Hashem should bless you ad bli dai.”

“Your men’s group was truly enlightening and eye-opening for me. Your teachings on masculine/feminine polarity transformed how I show up in my relationships, helping me understand the power of holding strong masculine presence while honoring the feminine. The work we did on emotional leadership — learning to feel deeply while staying grounded — gave me a whole new model of what it means to be a strong man.

I especially valued learning how to create and hold container as the masculine — something I now practice not just with my wife but in all areas of my life. It improved my communication skills and gave me a space to get vulnerable with other men, something I never realized I needed. Through this experience, I was able to forge deep bonds with people who started out as strangers. Seeing how you modeled authentic masculine leadership while sharing your own journey inspired me to do the same.

It was not only healing but also incredibly helpful in ways I didn’t expect. Your guidance on integrating shadow aspects, understanding masculine archetypes, and practicing conscious sexuality opened entirely new dimensions of personal growth for me. This group gave me tools for personal growth and connection that I’ll carry with me going forward.”

“I am incredibly grateful for the opportunity to be part of this women’s group.

Diving deep into the exploration of masculine and feminine energies — and gaining a deeper understanding of polarity within my relationship — has been truly eye-opening. Witnessing other women in their unfolding has been beautiful, and doing this sacred work together has been profoundly enriching.

Saadya is a gifted healer and facilitator. Being led by a man who so fully embodies a healthy masculine presence — demonstrating what it means to honor and hold space for the feminine — was, in itself, one of the most powerful aspects of the experience.

I truly wish for every woman I know to experience this sacred container and to feel the expansion, empowerment, and deep connection that come from stepping into her truest self.”

“If you’re looking to deepen your understanding of healthy masculinity and transform your relationships, I wholeheartedly recommend attending group coaching with Saadya. In his recent container, The Masculine in Relationship, I learned core, actionable concepts that I immediately put into practice with phenomenal results.

Saadya’s genuine love and commitment to helping each participant was evident throughout the experience. He masterfully created a safe, supportive space where honest sharing was not only encouraged but also profoundly impactful for everyone involved.

Whether you’re navigating struggles in your relationship or simply seeking to smooth out some significant challenges, I can’t recommend working with Saadya enough. His insight, guidance, and compassionate approach are nothing short of magical.”

“Dear Saadya,

When we first met five months ago, I told you about my 27 years of excruciating pain and everything I did to try to alleviate it – including brain surgery, and years of Fentanyl, and every traditional and alternative treatment I could find.

I suffered greatly every day starting in my 20’s, through my 30’s, my 40’s, and now into my 50’s, and the thought of continuing on like that was devastating. I only recently learned about the healing potential of the type of medicine work that you do, and I am so thankful that I was led to you.

This is so hard to describe, but I had an experience in my first journey that made it unequivocally clear that my pain, however excruciating it is, has absolutely no meaning, and is nothing to fear. This truth has remained with me, and I am no longer suffering.

In my second journey I had the overwhelming realization that I have inside me an extremely strong inner self – one that has been with me all along and has gotten me through so much hardship in the best possible way.

Before this, I actually doubted that I even had a real core. Now I know with every cell of my body that I am capable of facing any challenge, and when I falter I know I will be whole and secure in the end.

And most importantly I learned this truth: despite all the diagnoses I have been given along the way, there is nothing wrong with me.

The journeys themselves were the most wonderful, magical, life-altering experiences. Your loving presence and guidance, the care and attention you gave to every detail, the way you held a safe and embracing space.

Before experiencing those journeys, I could never have understood how fundamentally they, along with our weekly meetings and my active processing in between, would change every aspect of my life.

In our coaching sessions you not only reinforce what I received from the journeys by giving me a container in which to integrate, but you guide me towards building on all those awarenesses, and continuously growing.

I am unpacking and examining deep sadnesses that have been living inside me for many decades, and one by one they are falling away. I am discovering so many walls that I had to build to protect myself, and those are coming down as well.

I am finally experiencing all the feelings in my body that I had repressed for so many years. I fully trust my self now – a concept I did not even begin to understand before.

My life with my husband, and with my daughter, have also changed in ways they never thought possible. The life I live now is universes away from the life I lived five months ago. I feel so much love around me that I never knew was there, and the gratitude I feel is overwhelming.

I am now awake, and I love my life so much.

With tremendous love and appreciation,”