Repair what’s frayed. Rebuild polarity. Tell the truth. Learn how to meet each other again.
A deep, high-touch coaching container for couples who are done circling the same arguments, done living in resentment, and done settling for a relationship that still has love in it but no longer feels alive.
This is not generic couples therapy. This is intimate, relational work for couples who want more than communication tools—couples who want to repair what has been torn, understand the deeper patterns underneath their conflict, and restore the emotional, erotic, and spiritual current between them.
A lot of couples look functional from the outside.
You are together. You are committed. You may even still love each other deeply.
And yet something is off. There is distance. Tension. Defensiveness. A lack of safety. A loss of attraction. A loss of play. A loss of polarity. A loss of sex—or sex that no longer feels connected, free, or alive.
Maybe every conversation turns into the same fight. Maybe one of you overfunctions while the other shuts down. Maybe one of you is starving for more connection while the other feels pressured and overwhelmed. Maybe you are both trying, but neither of you feels truly met.
Love can still be there.
And the relationship can still need a completely different level of truth.
We are not just looking at what was said.
We are looking at what happens in your nervous systems, what happens in your bodies, what happens in the space between you, what each of you is protecting, what each of you is longing for, what truth has been avoided, what polarity has collapsed, and what is happening in your intimacy and sex life that no one is fully saying out loud.
Because that is where the real relationship lives.
“Mo and I spent SO much money on talk therapy in the past that got us nowhere other than feeling deeper resentment because the hour ended so quickly and nothing was actually being said.
Maybe it’s Saadya’s energy mixed with the pricing that makes the couple dive right in without sugar coating anything.
You are choosing to show up and do the works so say what you mean, mean what you say and do the work.”
“Thank you so much for our sessions thus far. I have not found traditional couples therapy helpful for me but this form of counseling with you has helped me in ways I can’t even begin to explain, to feel understood and give me much perspective.”
Architect, Los AngelesThis is where the relationship stops being something you talk about and becomes something you actually work inside of.
Presence
How to stay in the room when things get charged. Not just physically present. Actually present—able to listen without collapsing, speak without attacking, and stay connected to yourself while staying open to your partner.
Attunement + Repair
How to feel each other again. To sense when your partner is closing, guarding, pleading, or collapsing underneath the surface behavior—and how to use rupture as a doorway instead of a dead end.
Polarity + Intimacy
How to restore aliveness between masculine and feminine energy, and rebuild the emotional and erotic current that many couples lose long before they lose love.
This work does not avoid the most charged part of your relationship.
We go into pressure, shutdown, resentment, shame, rejection, longing, fear of wanting too much, fear of not being wanted enough, the difference between safety and desire, and the relationship between truth and erotic aliveness.
Not as technique. As energy, honesty, polarity, safety, and conscious intimacy.
When truth returns, intimacy becomes alive again.
“The sex we’ve had [since the retreat] was absolutely amazing, and there was a degree of honesty and freedom that was never there. I’m so grateful that you brought [sex] up because it’s one of the things that I hadn’t thought of improving, but it’s definitely improved.”
Investment Manager, NYC“[Saadya] has a deep understanding of what most couples don’t even know they’re struggling with — particularly male/female dynamics, codependency, and what it is that kills the polarity in a relationship.”
Entrepreneur, Los AngelesThe container is structured. The sessions are alive.
Inside the sessions
- Direct relational coaching
- Somatic work and nervous system regulation
- Breath, slowing down, and emotional processing
- Parts work and inner-child dynamics
- Polarity, intimacy, and sacred sexuality
What this asks of you
- A willingness to tell the truth
- A willingness to stop protecting the image of the relationship
- A willingness to be interrupted in your patterns
- A willingness to take responsibility for what each of you brings into the space
- A willingness to work, not just process
Couples describe the work as bonding, clarifying, and deeply connective.
“The format was great. We each felt heard, you respected our boundaries and used information from each of us to help the ‘us’ grow. I loved the experience, I think everything was perfect!”
Private Couples Retreat Participant“Your guidance and presence for both of us was so perfect. You were able to hold space for each of us separately and together... You were able to express what I have been trying to convey to [my wife] so well, I literally had to hold back from crying. You gave me the gift of a better marriage, and I hope to be able to grow that seed.”
Private Couples Retreat ParticipantThis is for couples who are serious about the relationship.
Couples who have already done some healing, therapy, or self-inquiry and know that insight alone is not enough.
Couples who want more than a place to stay polite while never saying what is actually true.
Couples who are ready for a deeper level of responsibility, honesty, contact, and transformation.
Deep, high-touch support over three months.
Length
Structure
Investment
Initial consultation: $550
Applied to your first month if you continueWhen aligned, the work may deepen into medicine work, private retreat, or other intensive formats.
Optional add-ons when appropriateYou do not need another hour where both of you explain yourselves and leave still feeling unseen.
You need a space where something real can happen. A space where truth is not avoided. Where your bodies are part of the conversation. Where resentment is not managed but worked. Where polarity, intimacy, and sex are not treated as side issues.
Where both of you can finally stop repeating yourselves and begin relating differently.
That is what this container is for.