The Feminine in Relationship
An intimate 8-Week Group Coaching Container with Saadya (Spring enrollment now open. Apply below.)
GROUP: The Feminine in Relationship
(Spring enrollment now open. Apply below.)
Allow yourself to be seen and held and to access your powers of presence, pleasure, receptivity, and flow.
Our group meets for 90 minutes via Zoom for 8 weeks.
Due to the depth of this work and the response it’s received, we’re expanding this next round from 6 week to 8 weeks—offering more time, more spaciousness, and more support for your unfolding.
“GROUP was a place where I felt safe bringing my true feelings and reactions, and I knew that whatever I said would be received and held. This is new for me, and it was exciting and freeing to experience it here so I can start to do the same in all the other places in my life.”
“This was a unique experience for me - I never surrounded myself with women in this way before. I have women friends, but I’m realizing now that I never experienced being a part of a group of women who are open and ready to hold space for each other. I found comfort and security in this group that I did not expect, and now I want more. I felt encouragement and empowerment, both from you and from the other women, and I feel like we all supported each other to move forward towards growth.”
“Coming into the women’s GROUP, I felt desperate for the choppy pieces of my puzzles to finally be sorted. I was searching for “THE solution” to my painful challenges, because I was in so much turmoil.
Instead, I received permission to authentically fall apart, to fall and feel truly and deeply into my feelings, and to roar through my lioness lungs. I learned that my power is in feeling a lack and leaning into what I actually desire — not controlling what the outcome should be. That the beauty of the feminine is to invite and trust, not to demand and chase. That my messy and loud is actually art and music. That I can be soft and that that is my strength, and I can be strong and that can be my softness. But I don’t need to be quiet. The world needs my voice. I need my voice. I don’t ever want to be quiet again.
I experienced conversations with my husband that would never have happened if I stayed quiet to “keep the peace.” I had my siblings grant my request for quality time with me because I invited it. I felt brave enough to open a can of decades of grief with my parents because I no longer wanted them to be mediocre parents to me and asked them to step up.
Most of all — I see the gorgeousness of being in my messy without all the ends tied up neatly — and letting it be part of my picture. I’m leaning into loving it.
GROUP gave me the space to safely BE in my feminine. Many thanks to Saadya who showed us what the healthy masculine is, oftentimes not through ‘teaching’ but by BEING the example. Thank you for holding my anger so beautifully.
Fellow women of GROUP — your bravery to show up with your messy is truly the most beautiful thing to witness. Thank you for your space, support, and inner wisdom you showed up with. There is no ‘GROUP’ without you.
No, my life’s not figured out, but through GROUP, I’ve received HOW to live this life.
Life, here I come. ✨”
“Through this work I am experiencing safety for the first time in my life. Because of how I am showing up differently, my husband is stepping up in ways I never knew possible. I now feel and relish in tremendous safety in my husband after so many years of marriage, and even more significantly I now feel safety in my self which I never experienced before.”
“I joined this group with a lot of hesitation and trepidation. I had no idea what I was getting into, and it scared me. This whole concept of masculinity and femininity was more than an unfamiliar space, it was something I actively railed against - these words themselves used to make me cringe.
But I’m learning that nature doesn’t work that way, and now that I decided to open up to a new possibility I feel so much more at peace, so much more at home in my body, and so much more power. Real power. I had no idea there was so much power available to me, and so easily. And with it I have been showing up differently in all my relationships. With my husband. With my daughter. With my mother. With my friends. With people I just met. The seeds that got planted in me in this group are growing into surprising and exciting and liberating experiences in every arena. ”
You don’t need a script. You need a safe place to be real.
What if you could speak your truth without being too much?
What if your longing wasn’t something to manage, but something to honor?
The Feminine in Relationship is not a course. It’s a return.
To your body. To your knowing. To the truth you’ve been softening for the sake of connection.
This is where we stop performing and start remembering.
Where we let grief, anger, longing, and joy have their place.
Where intimacy begins with honesty—especially the kind you’ve been told is “too messy.”
You don’t need to be more polished.
You need to be met.
The next cohort begins soon.
Apply below.
Inside The Feminine in Relationship, we explore...
• What it means to speak your pain without blaming, shaming, or collapsing
• How to stop over-managing the relationship and start trusting your feminine power to invite, soften, and magnetize
• The difference between control and invitation—and how your body already knows the way back to trust
• How to stay with yourself in the fire of emotion—so you don’t abandon your truth to preserve peace
• Naming the ache of emotional invisibility—the slow pain of being unseen in partnership, and how to come home to your full self
• Exploring the feminine wound of “too much”—and learning to stop shrinking to stay lovable
• How to express deep anger and grief without pushing your partner away
• Reclaiming the voice that was silenced—by family, culture, trauma, or your own survival strategy
• The role of boundaries that honor your body rather than punish the other
• How to let yourself desire, ache, cry, rage, receive—without apology
• Releasing the belief that you must be “easier to love” to be worthy of being met
• Reconnecting to your erotic truth—not just sexually, but as a way of being that radiates from presence
• Making peace with your lineage—healing what your mother and grandmother could not
• Trusting that your rawest truth isn’t too much—it’s the doorway to real intimacy
This container will support you to...
• Speak openly and honestly about your inner world, your desires, and your relationships
• Be fully witnessed in your truth—without needing to edit, shrink, or perform
• Hold space for other women from a place of presence, not pressure
• Ask for support without shame, and receive it without apology
• Rebuild trust in the feminine—within yourself, and within a safe, attuned circle
• Heal in community through resonance, reflection, and shared humanity
• Loosen the grip of shame, silence, and self-doubt
• Step into your grounded power, embodied truth, and authentic expression
• Expand your emotional range and capacity without losing yourself
• Deepen your connection to your body’s intelligence and inner authority
• Live from Self—anchored in truth, led by intuition, and sourced from within