Become
the man
you trust.
Seven weeks of live teaching, coaching and brotherhood for men becoming more grounded in themselves, more powerful in relationship, and more intimate with the women they love.
“It was a doorway into an entirely new way of seeing myself, my relationships, and the role I play in this world as a man.”
This isn't a class about being a better husband. It's a place to become more fully yourself.
We work with the places where men tend to lose themselves: conflict, desire, sexuality, boundaries, anger, resentment, approval, fear, leadership and intimacy.
You learn the fundamentals of masculine and feminine polarity. Then we bring them into your actual life.
I teach. We talk. I coach men live. We practice.
That's GROUP.
The fundamentals.
Presence
Stay with yourself when she's angry, disappointed, emotional or unavailable. Not controlling her. Not collapsing. Not disappearing. Not leaving yourself.
Polarity
Understand masculine and feminine as living energies, and what actually creates attraction, tension, safety, desire and trust.
Leadership
Feel deeply without becoming ungrounded. Take responsibility without abandoning yourself. Develop an inner compass you can actually trust.
Intimacy
Work directly with rupture and repair, sexuality, vulnerability, rejection, shame and desire— where relationship stops being theoretical and gets real.
Different men. Different marriages. Different lives. The work lands where it needs to.
“I've already seen the difference in myself and in our relationship, and I know this is something I'll carry with me for the rest of my life.”
“Every single class was an eye-opener. It was validating, incredibly insightful, and gave language to things I had never been able to understand before.”
“You led a masterful course, combining your knowledge, intuition, and hard-learned experience to help shift the way I think about marriage.”
“Best money
I could have spent.”
Stop waiting for your relationship to change before you do.
Your relationship
is the curriculum.
Your wife is not the problem to solve.
Neither are your anger, your sexuality, your fear, your need for approval, or the parts of you that still don't know what to do.
Those are the places where the work is waiting.
GROUP gives you a room in which to stop theorizing about the man you want to become and begin practicing being him.
Not just ideas about masculinity. A different way of inhabiting themselves.
“The work we did on emotional leadership— learning to feel deeply while staying grounded— gave me a whole new model of what it means to be a strong man.”
“The way you taught us about masculine energy— not as dominance or bravado, but as presence, integrity, clarity, and strength— helped me understand what it really means to show up. To myself. To my wife. To my family. To life.”
“I found it empowering and healing in a way that I could not access through one-on-one classical therapy.”
“Having an opportunity to be vulnerable and to be seen by nine other men, and to see and hold space for them, was something that I had not experienced since I was a child.”
GROUP
$1,350
Full seven-week container.
When both partners join their respective Masculine + Feminine GROUPs, the combined investment is $2,222.
Each of you does your own work. Your relationship gets to receive both.
The next GROUP
begins Wednesday.
If this work speaks to where you are, I'd love to have you with us.