1:1 Private Coaching with Saadya
Stop abandoning yourself.
High-touch private coaching for men and women ready to confront the patterns shaping their relationships, choices, intimacy, and lives.
Apply for private coachingThe premise
Life is not simply happening to you. It is revealing you to yourself.
The argument, the distance, the loss of desire, the inability to trust, the impulse to control, the fear of disappointing someone—each reveals where you leave yourself, override what you know, outsource your authority, or repeat a pattern you have already outgrown.
Private coaching is where we stop talking around that pattern and work directly with the person living inside it.
The aim is not invulnerability. It is presence, honesty, embodiment, and the capacity to remain yourself in the places that matter most.
Who this is for
You understand the pattern. It still runs your life.
You may have done therapy, coaching, spiritual work, or years of honest reflection. You can explain what happens. You may even know where it began.
But when the moment becomes charged, the old response still takes over. You collapse. Control. Pursue. Withdraw. Perform. Defend. Abandon yourself. Or make someone else responsible for your internal state.
Insight showed you the pattern. Now the work is to become different inside it.
- 01 You are highly capable, yet one part of your relational life keeps exposing what competence cannot solve.
- 02 You are done circling the same conflict, attraction, intimacy, self-worth, or direction pattern.
- 03 You want to remain connected to yourself without closing your heart to another person.
- 04 You are ready to examine your part without carrying what does not belong to you.
- 05 You want direct reflection, not another place to rehearse the same story.
- 06 You are willing to turn insight into behavior, embodiment, and choice.
The work
We begin where your life demands your attention.
Self, relationship, sexuality, power, conflict, and the body are not separate subjects. Each reveals the others.
Self
Self-trust, agency, desire, emotional truth, and knowing what is yours.
Relationship patterns
Attachment, projection, approval-seeking, overfunctioning, withdrawal, and repetition.
Conflict
Staying present under charge, speaking cleanly, receiving impact, and repairing rupture.
Polarity
Direction and receptivity, initiation and response, structure and flow.
Boundaries
Protection versus punishment, responsibility versus blame, devotion versus self-erasure.
Intimacy + sex
Desire, shame, rejection, attraction, pressure, freedom, safety, and erotic aliveness.
Leadership + receptivity
Leading without control. Receiving without disappearing. Choosing from truth.
Embodiment
Moving beneath analysis into sensation, emotion, nervous-system awareness, and lived truth.
The private container
We work with what is alive—not a predetermined curriculum.
This is an ongoing private relationship, not a sequence of disconnected sessions.
We work with what is happening now while tracking the deeper architecture beneath it: the beliefs, adaptations, protective strategies, wounds, and disowned truths organizing the visible problem.
The three-month minimum creates enough time to move beyond insight and into practice, rupture, repair, integration, and meaningful change.
$2,200
Per month
Three-month minimum
When appropriate, a paid 60-minute session may be offered before an ongoing engagement. This is a working session—not a sales call.
Readiness
You do not need to arrive clear, fearless, or fully ready.
You may still be confused. You may be afraid of what changes if you tell the truth. You may understand the pattern and still feel unable to move differently inside it.
That is not a reason to wait.
What matters is that some part of you knows the current way is no longer working—and is willing to look honestly at what is happening.
You do not need to know how to change.
You need to be willing to begin.
In their words
The quality of presence matters.
People often arrive having already done meaningful work. What they describe is the experience of being met differently.
I have till this day not met someone who holds space the way you do. Honestly you’ve ruined my experience with any other coach or therapist because I’m like, they’re not like Saadya.
Combined with his authenticity, compassion and therapeutic approach, Saadya has proven to be an exceptional coach. My personal growth and development has truly been astounding.
There are certain people that have a healing soul. Simply being in their presence is nurturing. Saadya is one of those people. His intuitive wisdom often picks up on highly important details that I myself am not yet aware of and empowers me with a new perspective.
The next step
Private work begins with an application.
Share what is happening, what you want to change, and why you are reaching out now. If there is a strong fit, you will be invited into the appropriate next step.
Make the situation visible.
Tell me what is happening, what you want, what you have already tried, and what you currently understand about it.
I consider the fit personally.
I review each application for alignment and whether private coaching is the right container.
If aligned, we speak.
Selected applicants are invited to a conversation or initial paid session. We clarify the work and decide whether to begin.
Apply for private coaching
Stop circling the pattern.
You do not need to have everything figured out.
Begin by telling me what is happening, what you want to change, and why you are reaching out now.
Apply to work with Saadya.
Move through the application one step at a time. Saadya reviews each submission personally.