Sex with Saadya

A six-week live course for men

How you relate to desire is how you relate to power.

How you handle rejection is how you lead.

How present you are in sex is how present you are everywhere else.

Sex with Saadya is a six-week live course for men who want to relate to sex with clarity, confidence, and integrity—without performance, shame, or confusion.

This is not a vague conversation about intimacy.

And it’s not therapy in disguise.

It is a direct, grounded, and instructive exploration of sex as life force, leadership, and intimacy.

Who this is for

This course is for men who:

  • Feel disconnected from their sexual energy—or ruled by it

  • Struggle with initiation, rejection, or desire mismatch

  • Want more intimacy without needing validation or approval

  • Carry shame, pressure, or confusion around sex

  • Want to bring more presence, containment, and confidence into their sexual life

  • Sense that sex could be something deeper and more grounded—and are ready to work with it directly

You do not need to be “good at sex.”

You do need to be willing to take responsibility for your inner world.

What we’ll work with

This course will be specific and instructive.

We will work with:

  • Sexual energy as life force—not tension, compulsion, or performance

  • Desire without neediness

  • Initiation from clarity instead of anxiety

  • Rejection without collapse, resentment, or withdrawal

  • Containment vs. repression

  • Shame, fantasy, honesty, and responsibility

  • Presence in the body

  • Sex as leadership in relationship

This is practical work.

We will speak plainly and work with what is real.

Who this is not for

This course is not a fit for:

  • Men at the very beginning of healing acute or unprocessed sexual trauma

  • Men currently in crisis around sexual compulsivity or addiction who need primary therapeutic support

  • Men looking for explicit content, techniques divorced from emotional maturity, or performance hacks

  • Men who want to bypass responsibility by blaming partners, circumstances, or past experiences

  • Men who are unwilling to look honestly at their relationship with desire, rejection, and power

If you are early in your trauma-healing journey, this work may be better suited after foundational therapeutic support is in place.

Format & Investment

  • Six weeks

  • Ninety minutes per session

  • Live, facilitated sessions

  • Men only

  • Limited group size

  • Teaching, guided experiential work, and structured inquiry

  • Space for real questions—without spectacle or oversharing

Investment: $1,350

Details on dates and logistics will be shared after application.

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If this speaks to something real in you, trust that.

This container is intentionally small and curated to protect the depth and integrity of the work.