The Feminine in Relationship
An intimate 8-Week Group Coaching Container with Saadya (Summer enrollment now open. Apply below.)
GROUP: The Feminine in Relationship
Allow yourself to be seen and held and to access your powers of presence, pleasure, receptivity, and flow.
Our group meets for 90 minutes via Zoom for 8 weeks.
“GROUP was a place where I felt safe bringing my true feelings and reactions, and I knew that whatever I said would be received and held. This is new for me, and it was exciting and freeing to experience it here so I can start to do the same in all the other places in my life.”
“This was a unique experience for me - I never surrounded myself with women in this way before. I have women friends, but I’m realizing now that I never experienced being a part of a group of women who are open and ready to hold space for each other. I found comfort and security in this group that I did not expect, and now I want more. I felt encouragement and empowerment, both from you and from the other women, and I feel like we all supported each other to move forward towards growth.”
“Coming into the women’s GROUP, I felt desperate for the choppy pieces of my puzzles to finally be sorted. I was searching for “THE solution” to my painful challenges, because I was in so much turmoil.
Instead, I received permission to authentically fall apart, to fall and feel truly and deeply into my feelings, and to roar through my lioness lungs. I learned that my power is in feeling a lack and leaning into what I actually desire — not controlling what the outcome should be. That the beauty of the feminine is to invite and trust, not to demand and chase. That my messy and loud is actually art and music. That I can be soft and that that is my strength, and I can be strong and that can be my softness. But I don’t need to be quiet. The world needs my voice. I need my voice. I don’t ever want to be quiet again.
I experienced conversations with my husband that would never have happened if I stayed quiet to “keep the peace.” I had my siblings grant my request for quality time with me because I invited it. I felt brave enough to open a can of decades of grief with my parents because I no longer wanted them to be mediocre parents to me and asked them to step up.
Most of all — I see the gorgeousness of being in my messy without all the ends tied up neatly — and letting it be part of my picture. I’m leaning into loving it.
GROUP gave me the space to safely BE in my feminine. Many thanks to Saadya who showed us what the healthy masculine is, oftentimes not through ‘teaching’ but by BEING the example. Thank you for holding my anger so beautifully.
Fellow women of GROUP — your bravery to show up with your messy is truly the most beautiful thing to witness. Thank you for your space, support, and inner wisdom you showed up with. There is no ‘GROUP’ without you.
No, my life’s not figured out, but through GROUP, I’ve received HOW to live this life.
Life, here I come. ✨”
“Through this work I am experiencing safety for the first time in my life. Because of how I am showing up differently, my husband is stepping up in ways I never knew possible. I now feel and relish in tremendous safety in my husband after so many years of marriage, and even more significantly I now feel safety in my self which I never experienced before.”
“I joined this group with a lot of hesitation and trepidation. I had no idea what I was getting into, and it scared me. This whole concept of masculinity and femininity was more than an unfamiliar space, it was something I actively railed against - these words themselves used to make me cringe.
But I’m learning that nature doesn’t work that way, and now that I decided to open up to a new possibility I feel so much more at peace, so much more at home in my body, and so much more power. Real power. I had no idea there was so much power available to me, and so easily. And with it I have been showing up differently in all my relationships. With my husband. With my daughter. With my mother. With my friends. With people I just met. The seeds that got planted in me in this group are growing into surprising and exciting and liberating experiences in every arena. ”
“I am incredibly grateful for the opportunity to be part of this women’s group.
Diving deep into the exploration of masculine and feminine energies — and gaining a deeper understanding of polarity within my relationship — has been truly eye-opening. Witnessing other women in their unfolding has been beautiful, and doing this sacred work together has been profoundly enriching.
Saadya is a gifted healer and facilitator. Being led by a man who so fully embodies a healthy masculine presence — demonstrating what it means to honor and hold space for the feminine — was, in itself, one of the most powerful aspects of the experience.
I truly wish for every woman I know to experience this sacred container and to feel the expansion, empowerment, and deep connection that come from stepping into her truest self.”
Polarity. Desire. Truth.
An 8-week live coaching container for women who want more than insight—women who want to feel alive in their relationships, connected to their desire, and honest enough to stop settling for “fine.”
This is for women who have already done inner work and know there is more available: more intimacy, more attraction, more honesty, more softness without self-abandonment.
There is nothing wrong with how deeply you feel.
What has been missing is a space that can actually hold it, meet it, and refine it into power.
Because right now, what you feel may be getting translated into overgiving, control, silence, emotional overwhelm, or the quiet ache of not feeling fully met.
You may love your partner and still feel disconnected. You may crave intimacy and still notice that your desire has faded. You may want to soften and open, but something in you does not trust enough to let go.
You do not just want to be loved.
You want to feel desired, safe, open, and alive.
Most women do not have a lack-of-love problem. They have a polarity problem.
Over time, control replaces openness. Resentment replaces softness. Functioning replaces feeling. And slowly, attraction, intimacy, and sex begin to shift.
You may still care deeply. You may still be loyal. You may still be trying. But if the relationship no longer feels alive, it is not because you need a few better communication tools. It is because something deeper in the energetic and emotional dynamic has gone missing.
This container goes there.
This is not a space to vaguely “talk about your feelings.”
Polarity
How masculine and feminine energy actually move in relationship. How attraction is created, how it collapses, and how overfunctioning, control, and mistrust quietly shut it down.
Intimacy
Your ability to be seen, felt, and met without performing. Telling the truth instead of managing perception. Staying open when every part of you wants to shut down.
Sex & Desire
Your connection to your body, your longing, your openness, and your erotic life. Why love alone is not enough for desire, and why safety without polarity often leaves women feeling closed.
We go into the things women often feel but rarely say out loud.
What you may be feeling
- I want to feel wanted again.
- I love him, but I do not feel as open sexually as I once did.
- I am tired of carrying so much.
- I want to trust, but I do not know how.
- I keep controlling because I do not feel safe enough to soften.
What this work begins to shift
- Control into receptivity.
- Resentment into truth.
- Disconnection into embodied desire.
- Emotional suppression into clean expression.
- “Fine” relationships into something more alive, honest, and sexually connected.
This is live, direct, relational work.
Each session includes grounding into the body, direct teaching on polarity, intimacy, and desire, live coaching, and real-time relational work.
You will not only understand yourself better. You will begin to experience yourself differently—in your body, in your voice, in your boundaries, in your openness, and in the way you relate to men and intimacy.
This is for a certain level of woman.
A woman who is already self-aware but knows she is still stuck in patterns.
A woman who has done therapy, coaching, or meaningful inner work and is ready for something deeper, sharper, more embodied, and more honest.
A woman who does not want surface-level support.
A woman who wants truth, polarity, intimacy, and a real return to desire—not as an idea, but as a lived experience inside her relationship and inside herself.
Women leave this container changed in ways that are subtle, embodied, and unmistakable.
They leave with a deeper connection to their body and desire. They learn to express truth without fear, to soften without collapsing, and to stay open without abandoning themselves.
And often, their relationships begin to feel more alive, more honest, and more sexually connected—not because they forced anything, but because they changed the way they show up.
You do not need to become someone else.
But you do need to stop controlling what you feel, suppressing what you know, and settling for a relationship that looks functional from the outside but no longer feels alive from the inside.
There is more available.
This is where you begin to experience it.
You don’t need a script. You need a safe place to be real.
What if you could speak your truth without being too much?
What if your longing wasn’t something to manage, but something to honor?
The Feminine in Relationship is not a course. It’s a return.
To your body. To your knowing. To the truth you’ve been softening for the sake of connection.
This is where we stop performing and start remembering.
Where we let grief, anger, longing, and joy have their place.
Where intimacy begins with honesty—especially the kind you’ve been told is “too messy.”
You don’t need to be more polished.
You need to be met.
The next cohort begins soon.
Apply below.
Inside The Feminine in Relationship, we explore...
• What it means to speak your pain without blaming, shaming, or collapsing
• How to stop over-managing the relationship and start trusting your feminine power to invite, soften, and magnetize
• The difference between control and invitation—and how your body already knows the way back to trust
• How to stay with yourself in the fire of emotion—so you don’t abandon your truth to preserve peace
• Naming the ache of emotional invisibility—the slow pain of being unseen in partnership, and how to come home to your full self
• Exploring the feminine wound of “too much”—and learning to stop shrinking to stay lovable
• How to express deep anger and grief without pushing your partner away
• Reclaiming the voice that was silenced—by family, culture, trauma, or your own survival strategy
• The role of boundaries that honor your body rather than punish the other
• How to let yourself desire, ache, cry, rage, receive—without apology
• Releasing the belief that you must be “easier to love” to be worthy of being met
• Reconnecting to your erotic truth—not just sexually, but as a way of being that radiates from presence
• Making peace with your lineage—healing what your mother and grandmother could not
• Trusting that your rawest truth isn’t too much—it’s the doorway to real intimacy
This container will support you to...
• Speak openly and honestly about your inner world, your desires, and your relationships
• Be fully witnessed in your truth—without needing to edit, shrink, or perform
• Hold space for other women from a place of presence, not pressure
• Ask for support without shame, and receive it without apology
• Rebuild trust in the feminine—within yourself, and within a safe, attuned circle
• Heal in community through resonance, reflection, and shared humanity
• Loosen the grip of shame, silence, and self-doubt
• Step into your grounded power, embodied truth, and authentic expression
• Expand your emotional range and capacity without losing yourself
• Deepen your connection to your body’s intelligence and inner authority
• Live from Self—anchored in truth, led by intuition, and sourced from within
Join the Next Cohort – Starting Spring 2026
Format: 8 weekly 90-minute Zoom sessions, Wednesdays at 1 PM EST (recorded for replay). Small group for real connection.
What You Get: Live coaching, somatic exercises, private group chat for support, alumni community.
Investment: $1350