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A brief orientation to working together

If you’re considering working together, this is the right place to begin.

I work with men and women in committed relationships—often at moments of tension, confusion, or crisis—who are ready to take responsibility for how they show up in love, intimacy, and leadership.

This work is direct, relational, and deeply human.

It’s not therapy. It’s not self-help. And it’s not for everyone.

Before anything else, this page will help you:

  • understand whether my work is a fit for you

  • get clear on the different ways we can work together

  • know what to expect—logistically and financially

  • choose the right next step without pressure or shame

Who This Work Is For

You may be in the right place if:

  • You’re in a committed relationship that feels strained, distant, or volatile

  • You’re facing recurring conflict, emotional shutdown, or loss of polarity

  • You’ve tried therapy or coaching and still feel something essential is missing

  • You’re willing to look honestly at your role—not just your partner’s

  • You’re ready for depth, truth, and responsibility

This work is not for people who are single, casually curious, or looking for quick fixes.

Ways We Can Work Together

There are several containers for this work. Each serves a different purpose.

The goal is not to choose the “biggest” option—but the right one.

1. GROUP (Men & Women)

8-week containers | Live on Zoom

GROUP is for men and women who want to do serious relational work in a supported group setting.

  • Men: Masculine in Relationship

  • Women: Feminine in Relationship

GROUP offers structure, reflection, and accountability—without being overwhelming or generic.

Investment:

$1,350 per person

$2,222 for couples enrolling together (parallel men’s/women’s tracks)

2. Private 1:1 or Couples Work

Ongoing containers | High-containment

This is for situations that require individualized attention, stability, and leadership—often during moments of relational crisis or major transition.

  • 1:1 coaching: $2,200 per month

  • Couples work: $2,500 per month

  • Minimum commitment: 3 months

Private work is selective and not the default starting point.

3. Relational Clarity Intensive

90 minutes | One-time session

A focused, standalone session designed to identify the core relational pattern at play and clarify what kind of work is actually needed.

Some people experience this as complete in itself.

Others use it to decide whether deeper work is appropriate.

This is not ongoing coaching or therapy.

Investment: $825

4. Medicine Work / Private Retreats

In-person | Healing Cabin

For those called to deep experiential work, medicine journeys are offered in a highly contained, intentional setting.

This work is sacred, rare, and not discounted.

Investment: $4,000 per retreat

How to Begin

If you’re interested in working together, the first step is a brief Orientation & Fit Call.

Orientation & Fit Call (20 minutes)

This is a short, non-coaching conversation to:

  • answer practical questions

  • explore fit

  • clarify which container makes sense (if any)

We will not be doing emotional processing, coaching, or therapy on this call.

Before booking, you’ll be asked to acknowledge the investment ranges above so there are no surprises or pressure.

👉 Start with an Orientation & Fit Call

A Final Note

I work with a limited number of people at a time.

This allows the work to stay grounded, personal, and effective.

If we’re a fit, we’ll know quickly.

If not, I’ll tell you honestly.

Either way, you’ll leave with clarity.